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  1. Published on Apr 26, 2023, 4:24 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Revolution or Reform?

    Ian replied:

    I will support reforms but push for revolution

  2. Published on Apr 26, 2023, 4:23 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    thoughts on seltzer, both flavored and unflavored

    Ian replied:

    be soda or be water, you cowards

  3. Published on Apr 25, 2023, 3:59 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are you blind, Chris Pratt is right there.

    in response to Marvel movies are cowardly for not having boobs in them.

    Ian replied:

    yeah, WITH PANTS ON

  4. Published on Apr 25, 2023, 3:59 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Will ai make a cs degree worthless?

    Ian replied:

    to paraphrase Ze Frank: "I would like to apologize on behalf of whoever told you any degree has worth. that was irresponsible of them."

  5. Published on Apr 25, 2023, 3:58 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is work wage slavery?

    Ian replied:

    I've never been fond of that term, as it seems a WEE BIT DISMISSIVE for middle class white folks to act like they're in the same boat today as enslaved Africans in 1810. but the basic concept, that having to work for a wage is a form of perpetual servitude, is correct.

  6. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 10:02 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    If OP wants to try, I've heard positive results of Healthy Gamer group coaches for this kind of stuff. You can talk with others who are trying to change behaviors in a similar way while being guided with a coach who can help navigate the mental health sides that could be invovled

    in response to I'm certain that you blocked me from Curiouscat because of the post I made a week ago about ensuring every man can get a girlfriend being an objectively good thing. I won't ask you to unblock me, though that would be nice. Rather, I just want to know how I can go about deprogramming myself from those beliefs that I know are pretty toxic. Any advice, please?

  7. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 9:57 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    You listened to that album Mezzanine by Massive Attack

    Ian replied:

    yeah, but I prefer Blue Lines

  8. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 9:57 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Thoughts on Tucker's departure from Fox?

  9. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 12:10 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Marvel movies are cowardly for not having boobs in them.

    in response to what scene have you paused the most

    Ian replied:

    Marvel movies are cowardly for not having dicks in them

  10. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:57 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I'm certain that you blocked me from Curiouscat because of the post I made a week ago about ensuring every man can get a girlfriend being an objectively good thing. I won't ask you to unblock me, though that would be nice. Rather, I just want to know how I can go about deprogramming myself from those beliefs that I know are pretty toxic. Any advice, please?

    Ian replied:

    just talk to some women and try to see them as people. I'm sorry that's not more actionable, but most folks who get out of toxic mindsets report that being critical: you realize the people you've abstracted and objectified are just as human as you.

  11. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:54 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do ADHD meds affect your creativity, in your experience? I'm worried I have ADHD, & might need meds to be able focus on the work I want to do, but I have this fear that my lack of focus is tied to my creative process, & that meds would disrupt both of those things

    in response to Do you feel having ADHD is a major handicap? Do you feel like you need your medications to function normally? Asking as someone who thinks they might have ADHD but not sure about getting a diagnosis.

    Ian replied:

    eh? it's probably true that my racing thoughts have led to some ideas that I may not have had otherwise. but keep in mind: most ADHD meds are stimulants. they're not like antidepressants that build up in your system over time. they last 8ish hours and then start to wear off. there is a morning and evening every day where I am unmedicated. you can also skip days if you want - this has recently been recommended to me because skipping a day can make the first day back on more potent, and it's good to have an emergency stockpile if the stimulant shortage continues.

    in my experience, I feel me creativity has been improved by medication, for the most part. it's easier to follow a thought further without going off on other tangents. but, if your creativity and ADHD are tied, there are ways to modulate your usage and get best of both worlds.

  12. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:49 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    It sounds like a lot to spend! It ain't fucking right how much mental health care costs for how it's helped you. When writing my post, I was spurred al by "unsure about getting a diagnosis" and that got me caught up in my own struggles to even Seek Care At All. This post you've made is making me think about how one of the earliest places I went to had a community subsidy fund that paid for my first few months of sessions since I didn't have a job at the time, which I was hella thankful for. If OP was talking about neurospych evals in specific, rather than mental health treatment in general, apologies for jumping to conclusion

    in response to This is all interesting but also additional different thing: if you are at all thinking about getting a diagnosis and have the means, Go! Sign up for it today. If you don't have ADHD, you probably are struggling with something else that has similar symptoms that can be treated or understood. Or, you actually have ADHD in addition to other things! Start with a therapist or peer support coach if you're fully unsure and tell them about your uncertainty.

    Ian replied:

    yeah, you can't get an ADHD diagnosis from regular therapy, it requires a very expensive set of tests. similar for an OFFICIAL autism diagnosis, and I think certain other diagnoses as well. some of them, an OFFICIAL diagnosis may not be critical - if you and your therapist think you have autism or OCD there are ways you can start working on it together, diagnosis be danged. but, because they're a controlled substance, you CANNOT get ADHD meds without a very expensive assessment.

  13. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:43 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (different anon) I feel like ADHD medication was turning me into exactly the type of person i hate. Has something similar been your experience?

    in response to This is all interesting but also additional different thing: if you are at all thinking about getting a diagnosis and have the means, Go! Sign up for it today. If you don't have ADHD, you probably are struggling with something else that has similar symptoms that can be treated or understood. Or, you actually have ADHD in addition to other things! Start with a therapist or peer support coach if you're fully unsure and tell them about your uncertainty.

    Ian replied:

    very much the opposite

  14. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:43 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    what scene have you paused the most

    Ian replied:

    look I was fifteen

  15. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:41 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    me when the helicopter i'm targeting with a stinger missile launcher deploys flares

    in response to Thoughts on Nina Simone?

  16. Published on Apr 24, 2023, 1:41 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    thoughts on the extremely high rate of abortion for babies with Down syndrome?

    Ian replied:

    it's ableist

  17. Published on Apr 22, 2023, 1:50 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Thoughts on Nina Simone?

  18. Published on Apr 22, 2023, 1:49 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    This is all interesting but also additional different thing: if you are at all thinking about getting a diagnosis and have the means, Go! Sign up for it today. If you don't have ADHD, you probably are struggling with something else that has similar symptoms that can be treated or understood. Or, you actually have ADHD in addition to other things! Start with a therapist or peer support coach if you're fully unsure and tell them about your uncertainty.

    in response to Do you feel having ADHD is a major handicap? Do you feel like you need your medications to function normally? Asking as someone who thinks they might have ADHD but not sure about getting a diagnosis.

    Ian replied:

    my neuropsych eval was $1600, that's not exactly "let's find out!" money

  19. Published on Apr 22, 2023, 1:47 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Opinion on L.A Noire (2011)

    Ian replied:

    wish it could've just accepted it's an adventure game

  20. Published on Apr 22, 2023, 1:47 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is a cosplay kink weird?

    Ian replied:

    weird can be good

  21. Published on Apr 22, 2023, 2:00 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you feel having ADHD is a major handicap? Do you feel like you need your medications to function normally? Asking as someone who thinks they might have ADHD but not sure about getting a diagnosis.

    Ian replied:

    uhhh... it's complicated.

    there are some ways that ADHD is a handicap solely because capitalism demands a certain type of repetitive, not-terribly-interesting labor, and that puts people with ADHD at a disadvantage. these are ways I wish the world were different.

    there are other ways I think ADHD makes me behave in ways that I don't like. blurting out my thoughts without enough filter, having an intense fear of rejection, having trouble focusing on what people are saying - these are all ways I want to be different, for my own sake, and meds help with that a lot.

    and there's work I want to do, that makes me happy, and my ADHD gets in the way of doing it. it's also what makes me money. so that's a mix.

    obviously, I functioned for 38 years without medication, and I accomplished a lot in that time! but the symptoms had gotten pretty bad by the time I got medicated, and it's hard to imagine functioning like that again without them.

    basically I wanna say that "functioning normally" is a complicated concept and I dislike the ways the deck is stacked against me, but also I like what I can do while on my meds, and the ways I can think, and don't ever want to go off them again.

  22. Published on Apr 20, 2023, 6:22 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Have you ever met a Holocaust survivor?

    Ian replied:

    Yes

  23. Published on Apr 20, 2023, 3:28 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    If socialism is so good, then where are all the academic works proving it?

    Ian replied:

    this is on the level of "if democracy is so great, why hasn't the king adopted it?"

  24. Published on Apr 20, 2023, 3:26 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Natalie referenced your videos twice in this video. Did she get your permission beforehand?

    in response to What’s your take on ContraPoints calling out Vaush in her new video for their drama from a while ago?

    Ian replied:

    a) she doesn't need permission to quote me
    b) Nat has blanket permission as far as I'm concerned

  25. Published on Apr 19, 2023, 3:07 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What’s your take on ContraPoints calling out Vaush in her new video for their drama from a while ago?

    Ian replied:

    I haven't watched her new video yet, it's 2 hours long and I'm between bottles of my ADHD meds (again) so that's a degree of attention I haven't managed.

  26. Published on Apr 19, 2023, 3:07 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is this true of other cities too, or do you think that's just an LA thing? Is it true of Boston?

    in response to What's thr most LA song?

    Ian replied:

    I'm sure hate songs about other cities exist, but I don't know any of them off the top of my head. But I know dozens and dozens of hate songs about LA.

  27. Published on Apr 19, 2023, 3:05 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Best Simpsons gif?

  28. Published on Apr 18, 2023, 4:05 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    this is blowing my mind. I thought the controversy was around his church, which I thought was pretty bad but not horrible. This is like an entirely new level.

    in response to ...Care to elaborate?

    Ian replied:

    the whole "Chris Pratt is part of a homophobic church" thing and then all his costars rallying around to say "Chris is a good guy!" but none of them saying "Chris is not homophobic" was a bit worrisome, but, no, the church thing was a lot of sound and fury. he now claims he was never part of that church (though he attends a different, less-but-not-unproblematic church).

  29. Published on Apr 18, 2023, 3:10 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I really like your adventure game masterpost! Do you have any plans to update it?

    Ian replied:

    I add new fav adventures whenever I come across one, and am slowly reviewing each game from the hype list. I haven't added any new "looking forward to" in a while, not sure what's on the horizon these days. and I've been on a Metroidvania kick lately so I haven't played an adventure in a while.

  30. Published on Apr 17, 2023, 2:48 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Hi, what can an assistant manager do to treat his workers from a leftist perspective?

    Ian replied:

    encourage them to unionize, cooperate with the union's demands

  31. Published on Apr 16, 2023, 4:00 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Can the protagonists of your movie take more than one hit without dying?

    in response to You get to pick any Nintendo game to be movied, what do ya pick and why? Personally: Thousand Year Door.

    Ian replied:

    no but they respawn instantly

  32. Published on Apr 16, 2023, 3:59 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Doesn’t the three percenters logo have a Roman numeral three in the middle of the stars? Do they also use the 13 stars alone as a logo?

    in response to ...Care to elaborate?

    Ian replied:

    they use both. this photo was taken at a three percenter gathering so it's not ambiguous what it means.

  33. Published on Apr 16, 2023, 3:57 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    You're... a pastry?

    in response to He wasn't you're just "doughy"

    Ian replied:

    baby I'm the whole damn patisserie

  34. Published on Apr 16, 2023, 3:56 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    ...I think I'm willing to let you keep that answer if you really wanna, ya seem disappointed Contra isn't a Nintendo.

    in response to Contra's a Nintendo? Did not realize.

    Ian replied:

    I'm disappointed in myself

  35. Published on Apr 15, 2023, 7:49 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Contra's a Nintendo? Did not realize.

    in response to You get to pick any Nintendo game to be movied, what do ya pick and why? Personally: Thousand Year Door.

    Ian replied:

    ...ok no, Contra III was ON Nintendo but it's Konami. that's... that's me not thinking through the question.

  36. Published on Apr 15, 2023, 7:49 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    He wasn't you're just "doughy"

    in response to Women like him because he’s hot so you will never win this one

    Ian replied:

    no like parks and rec, before he got all buff

    and, yeah, I'm hot and doughy, too!

  37. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:44 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    You get to pick any Nintendo game to be movied, what do ya pick and why? Personally: Thousand Year Door.

    Ian replied:

    Contra III

  38. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:40 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Would a live action Metroid movie include the Morph Ball?

    Ian replied:

    as dlc

  39. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:40 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What do you remember?

    in response to Are you old enough to remember the Oklahoma City bombing?

    Ian replied:

    hard to say what I was and wasn't aware of at the time. I've learned more about it over the years and my brain likes to project new knowledge backwards into earlier memories. I think I knew that it happened and saw photos? and I had the sense that it was a big deal. but I didn't know who did it, or why, or what building was targeted. I also don't think I understood that this kind of domestic terrorism was uncommon. "Oklahoma City," "Waco," and "the Unabomber" were all terms that floated around in the 90's that I didn't have a lot of context for, but I generally knew it was people getting kinda extreme and shooting/blowing up other folks. I don't think I fully understood that they were three different things?

    forgive me, I was in elementary school, and deeply incurious about politics.

  40. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:31 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Anyone the internet hates for bad reasons despite there being good reasons for hating them?

    in response to I'd like to see Brie play Samus just so she could join Pratt as Mario and complete the set of "Marvel actors the internet has decided to hate for no justifiable reason".

    Ian replied:

    Nazis hate me cuz they think I'm a race traitor when they SHOULD hate me because I'm just too damn attractive

  41. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:31 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Women like him because he’s hot so you will never win this one

    in response to ...Care to elaborate?

    Ian replied:

    not trying to cancel him, just explaining the backlash

    he was hotter when he was doughy

  42. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:29 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are you mainly familiar with American film noir, or have you seen any from other countries as well?

    (This question brought to you by a theatre local to me doing a month-long programme of screening vintage French film noir).

    Ian replied:

    yeah, I've seen some of the classic-era French noirs (Rififi, Touchez pas au grisbi), and a fair bit of neo-noir from France, Japan, and Germany

  43. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 12:24 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    They’re not white supremacist they’re just gun nuts and constitutional larpers

    in response to ...Care to elaborate?

    Ian replied:

    while not explicitly white-supremacist in its formation, like most any hard right organization they trend towards overt racism, regularly showing up at BLM rallies looking for a fight, defending white supremacist groups against lefty counterprotesters, and actively targeting Muslims and immigrants

    so, make up your own mind, I guess

  44. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 3:28 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    ...Care to elaborate?

    in response to I'd like to see Brie play Samus just so she could join Pratt as Mario and complete the set of "Marvel actors the internet has decided to hate for no justifiable reason".

    Ian replied:

    this is a picture of him wearing a hat with the logo for the Three Percenters, an extreme right, white supremacist militia that his brother is a member of

  45. Published on Apr 14, 2023, 3:18 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Back in 2021, I remember you mentioned you were researching revolutions, post-capitalist or non-capitalist societies, and the like. I wondered how that research was going, if you had a research/book list you could share, and so on! I'd love to hear how that work is going! (also in general your essays are incredibly inspirational and thought-provoking! thank you so very much for all you do)

    Ian replied:

    I'm afraid to say that, in 2021, I was talking about a DESIRE to start researching post- and non-capitalist societies when I finish The Alt-Right Playbook. unfortunately that series isn't done so I haven't started the other project yet. :(

  46. Published on Apr 13, 2023, 4:08 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I'd like to see Brie play Samus just so she could join Pratt as Mario and complete the set of "Marvel actors the internet has decided to hate for no justifiable reason".

    in response to Which phase will the Metroid movie that I expect Brie Larson to will into existence fit into? It’s a phase three role but presumably as a producer she’d be deep into phase four. This of course assumes the critical response to the Mario movie hasn’t made Nintendo gunshot about adaptations for another 20 years.

    Ian replied:

    people hate Pratt for entirely justifiable reasons

  47. Published on Apr 12, 2023, 10:42 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Even though Captain Marvel feels like the height of Marvel mediocrity, i still think Larson’s comedic chops are largely on display. Watching her do the buddy cop thing with Sam Jackson was endearing and fun

    in response to What separates the phases of Brie Larson? Room?

    Ian replied:

    the problem is the a) wry one-liners are not a great showcase of comedic skill, and b) the lines weren't funny

  48. Published on Apr 12, 2023, 12:37 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Which phase will the Metroid movie that I expect Brie Larson to will into existence fit into? It’s a phase three role but presumably as a producer she’d be deep into phase four. This of course assumes the critical response to the Mario movie hasn’t made Nintendo gunshot about adaptations for another 20 years.

    in response to What separates the phases of Brie Larson? Room?

    Ian replied:

    1) I still insist the correct Samus is Gwendolyn Christie or Elizabeth Debicki, and that Brie should play Samus' love interest

    2) Mario is the top-grossing movie in the world right now and broke the record for biggest 5-day opening weekend in history, if anything Nintendo is gonna fast-track adaptations now

    3) Phase Four, hopefully using her rep to make a very weird blockbuster with almost no dialogue

  49. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 7:37 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Diff anon. How are you to blame for actions that you have not taken? If you aren't to blame, then why should you feel guilt?

    Or if you specifically feel guilty about actions that you actually take, just don't do them!

    in response to White guilt is just original sin in a trench coat.

    Ian replied:

    https://curiouscat.live/InnuendoStudios/post/1312633294

  50. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 7:36 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    "Is Jordan Peterson sexist?"

    2 Days later: It's actually GOOD for society for women to be made into sex-slaves!

    in response to Isn't ensuring that all men get romantic/sexual partners an objectively good thing? More men than ever are starved of intimacy while even the bottom tier of women appearance-wise can find a partner incredibly easily. It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective because women have more investment in child-rearing since they can get pregnant, so it's in their best interest to only seek out men with the best genes (meaning men that are dominant, athletic, etc.). No one cares about the males that are left behind; they are seen as nature's hereditarily unfit. It should be noted that reproduction is the goal of all organisms on this planet (even single-celled amoeba, if you can believe it), so it causes great mental strain to be denied it (I think someone even wrote a chapter about what happens to lobsters that repeatedly get rejected, but I just can't remember who right now unfortunately). When a woman rejects a man, it essentially signals to him "look, I like you as a friend, but your genes aren't strong enough to be carried onto the next generation." However, there's no need for that form of sexual selection in today's civilized world. Government-mandated girlfriends are basically a form of affirmative action for men. Just like how humans need food to survive, they need romantic connection for their emotional wellbeing.

  51. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 7:36 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are there any pieces of media that you love to shit on. Just really fucking give it the once over. Ideally something that's not-like, obvious (bigoted or whatever). Just some regular ass thing you wanna give the big ol deuce on

    Ian replied:

    the fun in hating on things has been sapped by getting yelled at publicly by the fans. it's not worth it to criticize things for fun anymore. I only do it if the problems are real, and that's rarely fun.

    now I have to get fun from (ugh!) liking things. 😡

  52. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 2:23 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    White guilt is just original sin in a trench coat.

    in response to I don't motherfucker my people have suffered more than anyone's in history. I will not feel anymore "guilt" after all this.

    Ian replied:

    I've heard this argument before, and it's such an odd and intriguing worldview. it reminds me of this guy I knew who rejected evolution because he felt, if evolution is real, then the only logical endpoint of it would be social Darwinism, and, since social Darwinism is obviously evil, evolution couldn't be true.

    now, we don't have time to unpack ALL of that (short version: evolution is real and social Darwinism is not its logical endpoint), it was fascinating to see someone reject evidence purely because it would lead, in their opinion, to a philosophically offensive conclusion. the idea that the world MUST be philosophically just, and any reality that implies it is otherwise must be false. it's the same as arguing geocentrism because the idea that God didn't make the Earth the center of the universe is too painful to consider.

    my ancestors committed heinous crimes for personal gain, plundered the spoils, and have held them so tightly that generations of people have suffered so their descendants can prosper. as one of those descendants, I often feel ways about that, as any sane person would. you have made the astute observation that this bears some similarities to a Christian doctrine of guilt. this could open a vein of philosophical inquiry into how humans use guilt as a motivator, and under what circumstances that happens, or the differences between a religious concept built around a wrong founded in myth that can only be righted by lifelong fealty to a religious figure and rewarded in death vs. a historical fact that is public knowledge, heavily documented, and whose effects we can see daily with out own eyes, and which can literally be undone by human effort such that future generations would not need to feel it any longer.

    you have instead mentioned it to be snide and dismissive about one's relationship to the history of whiteness. how bold.

  53. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 2:09 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are you old enough to remember the Oklahoma City bombing?

    Ian replied:

    vaguely

  54. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 2:09 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Isn't ensuring that all men get romantic/sexual partners an objectively good thing? More men than ever are starved of intimacy while even the bottom tier of women appearance-wise can find a partner incredibly easily. It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective because women have more investment in child-rearing since they can get pregnant, so it's in their best interest to only seek out men with the best genes (meaning men that are dominant, athletic, etc.). No one cares about the males that are left behind; they are seen as nature's hereditarily unfit. It should be noted that reproduction is the goal of all organisms on this planet (even single-celled amoeba, if you can believe it), so it causes great mental strain to be denied it (I think someone even wrote a chapter about what happens to lobsters that repeatedly get rejected, but I just can't remember who right now unfortunately). When a woman rejects a man, it essentially signals to him "look, I like you as a friend, but your genes aren't strong enough to be carried onto the next generation." However, there's no need for that form of sexual selection in today's civilized world. Government-mandated girlfriends are basically a form of affirmative action for men. Just like how humans need food to survive, they need romantic connection for their emotional wellbeing.

    in response to To be fair, I think enforced monogamy refers to ensuring that the top 20% of men (the "Chads") aren't promiscuous with the top 80% of women. It's not policing women's sexuality, only the upper minority of men.

    Ian replied:

    I'm begging you to talk to an actual evolutionary biologist, or, better yet, a single woman, before spouting off with the stuff suicidal virgins tell themselves on forums. this philosophy? it's based on nothing. it bears no weight. it is both factually and morally wrong. guys flock to it because it says there are systemic or biological reasons why they can't get dates when the truth is women can just tell they're bitter, socially awkward, and unwilling to see women as human beings. ("ensuring that all men get romantic/sexual partners an objectively good thing" yeah, UNLESS YOU'RE THE WOMAN BEING SOCIALLY "ENSURED.") and it may make you feel better to hear men tell you all your fears are true, and feel unheard by me telling you they're not, but the fact that pain feels more believable DOESN'T MAKE IT CORRECT.

    you're not going to get your government-mandate reproductive partner. The Handmaid's Tale is not a how-to book. and, in lieu of that, there are three common outcomes to believing this stuff: suicide, shooting sprees, or snapping out of it.

    I entreat you to consider the latter.

  55. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 1:58 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    things went SORTA okay with the toad, didn't it?

    in response to I think the real question here is: what did kid you want from Mr. Elives' shop, and has that changed now that you're an adult?

    Ian replied:

    I mean, in the *end*, yeah. same with the monster's ring, overall. but, like... neither did what they wanted. Jeremy got a dragon's egg and a dragon came out of it. did what it said on the tin!

  56. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 2:51 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Also, everything that they *believe* is a justification for what they *do*. They believe that God hates gay people and trans people because that belief justifies their political campaign against those groups.

    in response to If conservative Christians think that after death, everyone is perfectly fairly judged by an all-knowing and all-powerful god, why do they care so much about everything, especially gay and trans people? They should rest easy, thinking that everyone will eventually be treated as they deserve.

  57. Published on Apr 11, 2023, 2:51 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I'm sorry, is anyone going to comment on the 20%/80% thing? There are definitely promiscuous people out there but I'm not seeing 1 in 5 guys having sex with 4 out of every 5 women I know, doesn't this worldview also say women are supposed to be super jealous and don't want men even talking to other women?

    in response to To be fair, I think enforced monogamy refers to ensuring that the top 20% of men (the "Chads") aren't promiscuous with the top 80% of women. It's not policing women's sexuality, only the upper minority of men.

    Ian replied:

    yeah, there's a reason these kinds of statements proliferate on incel forums: you can only believe them if you've literally never spoken to a woman about sex

    ask any woman if the majority of men she's fucked are in the top 20%

  58. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 9:18 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I think the real question here is: what did kid you want from Mr. Elives' shop, and has that changed now that you're an adult?

    in response to Did you grow up on Diary of a Wimpy Kid or Big Nate?

    Ian replied:

    Jeremy Thatcher's like the only one who didn't get completely screwed by their purchase, so I'm going with dragon egg

  59. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 9:17 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    To be fair, I think enforced monogamy refers to ensuring that the top 20% of men (the "Chads") aren't promiscuous with the top 80% of women. It's not policing women's sexuality, only the upper minority of men.

    in response to How?

    Ian replied:

    no, he said the government should institute some means of guaranteeing a larger number of men romantic/sexual partners

    per usual he used roundabout language so he's free to say "that's not what I meant" to literally any interpretation of his words

  60. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 9:15 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    If conservative Christians think that after death, everyone is perfectly fairly judged by an all-knowing and all-powerful god, why do they care so much about everything, especially gay and trans people? They should rest easy, thinking that everyone will eventually be treated as they deserve.

    Ian replied:

    they believe God will judge them poorly if they don't punish the wicked on Earth. they believe that's part of the doctrine.

  61. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 1:31 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Diff. Anon here: While this isn't an unreasonable assessment, it is worth being able to identify the difference between partaking in the white supremacist history vs benefiting from the effects. I feel the guilt should only be felt by those who partake, not benefit. That said, should not someone like yourself who fights against the systems get more leniency since you are choosing to go against those systems to your own detriment?

    in response to You don't need to feel shame over something you've never partaken in, like, it's not like you are responsible for the qctions of every white person ever.

    Ian replied:

    it's interesting that you say "leniency" as though guilt is being imposed on me. like, the guilt is very much coming from inside the house.

    consider it this way: I'm not afraid of cops. I know there are reasons to be, but a cop has never done anything to me to make me feel afraid. I've dealt with cops on ego trips who wanna act tough because I ran a stop sign and I have to show them deference, but I know they're going to let me off with a warning, so it's just masking my annoyance. I've bullshit my way out of trouble when one nearly caught me having sex in my van. logically, I know the danger they pose, and that I am not immune to it, but that is not an emotional response. I do not live in fear of the police.

    and I know every POC in my life does. I know how often "running a stop sign" ends up with a dead body for Black people, that's literally what happened to Sandra Bland. and that's cause to be self-conscious, sheepish, but is it cause to be guilty?

    but there is a part of me that is... glad to be white. that sees the way other people have to orient themselves around cops as a matter of survival and is glad that's not me. and, like, who wouldn't? I am angry, I am indignant, I am often terrified for my friends and loved ones, but I'm also relieved. how could anyone who sees how fucking violently racist the cops are not be relieved?

    but how could anyone who cares about this shit not feel guilty about being relieved?

    I know my guilt isn't helping anyone. I don't feel guilty because I'm "supposed" to. I feel guilty because I think it's wrong to feel a degree of "white pride" in spite of myself, to feel that reflex to look away from police violence because it doesn't affect me. to know that urge to look away (which I definitely indulge) makes me a worse ally. I have often been the white guy in leftist and social justice spaces who failed at something because he didn't understand the non-white experience of it, and got defensive with a moment of white fragility when I needed to listen. and that this will keep happening, even as it gets better with time.

    guilt is a byproduct if giving a shit.

  62. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 1:30 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I don't motherfucker my people have suffered more than anyone's in history. I will not feel anymore "guilt" after all this.

    in response to Do you feel white guilt?

    Ian replied:

    you fucking baby

  63. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 1:29 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is there anyone who isn't?

    in response to Is Jordan Peterson sexist?

    Ian replied:

    no, but for most it's a condition. for Peterson, it's a CALLING.

  64. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 1:13 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How?

    in response to Is Jordan Peterson sexist?

    Ian replied:

    how is Government-Mandated Monogamy Guy sexist?

  65. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 2:16 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    You don't need to feel shame over something you've never partaken in, like, it's not like you are responsible for the qctions of every white person ever.

    in response to Do you feel white guilt?

    Ian replied:

    but I am partaking, as is every white person, whether we want to be or not

  66. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 2:15 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Did you grow up on Diary of a Wimpy Kid or Big Nate?

    Ian replied:

    no, I grew up on My Teacher is an Alien

  67. Published on Apr 10, 2023, 2:14 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is Jordan Peterson sexist?

    Ian replied:

    very

  68. Published on Apr 9, 2023, 3:23 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What separates the phases of Brie Larson? Room?

    in response to Ever see the movie The Spectacular Now? Thoughts?

    Ian replied:

    Phase One Brie Larson (2009-2013)

    Phase One begins with first major role as Kate on United States of Tara. Phase One Brie is commonly a member of an ensemble, typically comic (or tragicomic). though occasionally an explicitly comedic character (House Broken, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World), more often playing "generally game love interest" to more explicitly funny characters (e.g. Jonah Hill in 21 Jump Street). Helen in Rampart the only *explicitly* dramatic role, but dramatic chops often on display in lighter fare.

    Phase Two Brie Larson (2013-2015)

    Phase Two launches with first leading role in Short Term 12, immediately recontextualizing Brie from character actress who can do drama to dramatic actress who can do comedy. shift most explicit in Trainwreck, where she plays Jeff Bridges to Amy Schumer's Jim Carrey - the serious actor doing comedy opposite a professional comedienne. (We are counting The Spectacular Now as a Phase One movie despite going into wide release *after* Short Term 12 because it first played at Sundance in January while Short Term 12 first played at South by Southwest in March.) Phase Two culminates, obviously with Brie winning an Oscar for a dramatic performance in Room.

    Phase Three Brie Larson (2015-present)

    post-Oscar, Brie is doing the Hollywood Headliner thing where she alternates major, tentpole franchises (Kong: Skull Island, Captain Marvel, Fast & Furious 10) with small scale prestige pictures (The Glass Castle, Just Mercy). while the action movies are often unserious and have her delivering wry one-liners, her talent for playing expressly comedic characters (Suzy in House Broken, Envy in Scott Pilgrim) and her ability to mix comedy with drama (Trainwreck, United States of Tara) has seemingly been forgotten.

    she also may be laying groundwork to enter into a more self-directed Phase Four, with more producing and directing, which seems centered on looking at messy human emotions through a lens of quirky whimsy, on display in her feature directorial debut Unicorn Store. you should be aware that Unicorn Store is for diamond-tier Brie Larson stans only, anyone not fully onboard the Larson train will find it insufferable, while the diehards will find it... sort of okay I guess. novice stans should begin with her far more palatable directorial effort, the 2013 short film Weighting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFsi3qTboP4

  69. Published on Apr 9, 2023, 3:20 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Thoughts on Richard Wagner?

    Ian replied:

    good music, kinda fashy

  70. Published on Apr 9, 2023, 3:19 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you feel white guilt?

    Ian replied:

    sure, sometimes

  71. Published on Apr 7, 2023, 8:01 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    what recent/upcoming video games do you have your eyes on?

    Ian replied:

    Skin Deep
    Selaco
    Dead Horizon
    Old Skies
    Environmental Station Alpha 2
    Savior
    Oxenfree II

    and, as always, Silksong

  72. Published on Apr 7, 2023, 7:52 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What's thr most LA song?

    in response to What's the most California song?

    Ian replied:

    half the songs about how awful LA is are written by natives

    https://spotify.link/5ewX1yNoOyb

  73. Published on Apr 7, 2023, 7:51 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    This conversation is straight out of an anime i love it

    in response to No brother... You have taken my analogy literally. What I mean is, that you are in fact responsible for the morale of your group. If it is acceptable for a group to openly show weakness, then it logically follows that they will be weak. Do you want your people to be weak or strong?

    Ian replied:

    I'm basically describing Our Flag Means Death

  74. Published on Apr 7, 2023, 2:11 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Obviously the USSR sucked, but your arguments are awful. Invading Nazi Germany when it was doing the Holocaust even if it wasn't invading other countries or Turkey when it was doing the Armenian genocide would be the right thing to do, not imperialism. If you would consider that "declaring yourself world police" and wrong, you would be excusing human rights violations because they come from other countries.

    in response to Not everyone knows everything. People who are not familiar with this part of history are going to see two posts: 1) A detailed argument about why the Hungarian Revolution was reactionary and not socialist and 2) You ignoring the substance of that argument to call the person a Tankie. I'm not saying their right. I'm just saying it should be very easy for you to explain why they are wrong.

    Ian replied:

    I'm a little surprised that I have to say this, but "overthrowing a Stalinist regime to institute a self-proclaimed socialist one that is, in your opinion, too socdem" is not on the same level as "the Holocaust" and the fact that you would even make the comparison is staggering

  75. Published on Apr 7, 2023, 2:06 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (diff anon) When a democratic nation wages war on a fascist dictatorship for the purpose of regime change, as was the case with the Allies against the Nazis in WWII, is that imperialism? The old saying goes "Evil prospers when good men do nothing". Are you saying that the opposite is true? In essence, that sometimes good men *must* do nothing in order to remain good?

    in response to Not everyone knows everything. People who are not familiar with this part of history are going to see two posts: 1) A detailed argument about why the Hungarian Revolution was reactionary and not socialist and 2) You ignoring the substance of that argument to call the person a Tankie. I'm not saying their right. I'm just saying it should be very easy for you to explain why they are wrong.

    Ian replied:

    do you think that argument applies?

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