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  1. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 7:49 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Rank these Nazis: Himmler, Goebbels, Goring, Eichmann, Heydrich, Bormann, Hess, Hoss, Speer, and Rohm.

    Ian replied:

    10-way tie for second worst

  2. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 2:37 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Diff Anon:
    Are you ready to "get swole" as the kids say?

    in response to How did you get so chunky on a vegan diet?

    Ian replied:

    been getting swoler for the last couple years, I'm currently the strongest I've ever been. tum ain't shrinking tho.

  3. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 1:03 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Lenin said "fascism is capitalism in decay" and he was already almost dead by 1922

    in response to That’s not what fascists said they wanted in the 1920s and earlier.

    Ian replied:

    that's not actually a Lenin quote

  4. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:09 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I’m a cis het dude

    in response to I just like English girls and think she’s cute

    Ian replied:

    then liking a girl is straight

  5. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:08 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    That’s not what fascists said they wanted in the 1920s and earlier.

    in response to Would you still believe right-wing politics are fundamentally bad if the Nazis and the Blackshirts never came to power but Stalin and Mao did? Thus the Holocaust would not have happened but the Holodomor, Great Purge, famines would have.

    Ian replied:

    "earlier"? fascism began in 1922, and it has used eliminationist rhetoric/promises of conquest the whole time. it started smaller scale - just take over the Po Valley and eliminate the socialists - but it led swiftly to a coup attempt, then a totalitarian government, then World War II.

  6. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:05 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (Dumb Ass) if you were God would you send Biden to heaven or hell?

    in response to Why does Biden keep lying about the ceasefire? They have been insisting for months and months that the only obstacle for a deal is Hamas when LITERALLY Yesterday Netenyahu went on fox news and said openly that he's not interested in a deal. The Israeli public are conducting mass protests in order to pressure Netenyahu to try to reach a deal. Yet Biden Is ignoring even the will of the Israeli people. It's so backwards it's crazy he's not even pro Israel because Israelis don’t want this. He's Pro Netenyahu, a man who is desprate for Trump to be in power again.

    Ian replied:

    if I were God I would dismantle Heaven and Hell

  7. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:05 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I am straight dude been multiple relationships that have ended because my partner came out as a lesbian, it’s happened too often to be a coincidence what does this say about me?

    Ian replied:

    you are attracted to queerness. you'll hone your detection skills and land a hot bi girl, I'm sure.

  8. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:03 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you support low taxes?

    Ian replied:

    taxes are a way of mitigating capitalism, so I am generally in favor of much higher taxes on the wealthy and moderately lower taxes on the working class

    but I would support economies that have guaranteed standard income or are fully moneyless, which would render taxes unnecessary

  9. Published on Sep 10, 2024, 12:00 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you have any opinions of Mao btw. I know you think Stalin was a monster but most of the deaths under Mao were unintentional

    in response to Would you still believe right-wing politics are fundamentally bad if the Nazis and the Blackshirts never came to power but Stalin and Mao did? Thus the Holocaust would not have happened but the Holodomor, Great Purge, famines would have.

    Ian replied:

    I haven't looked into Mao yet

    I don't think looking into Mao is gonna make me like him

  10. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 11:59 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Op who asked the Phasma question, you’ve made me love the movie even more now! Thank you! 🥹

    Ian replied:

    ♥️♥️♥️

  11. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 9:01 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How is the next ARP coming along

    Ian replied:

    illustrations done, scratch narration recorded, planning to start the edit this week if life can let up for a minute

  12. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 6:21 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How did you get so chunky on a vegan diet?

    Ian replied:

    meds and genetics

  13. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:14 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Would you still believe right-wing politics are fundamentally bad if the Nazis and the Blackshirts never came to power but Stalin and Mao did? Thus the Holocaust would not have happened but the Holodomor, Great Purge, famines would have.

    Ian replied:

    I would still consider the ideology that says "let's conquer the world and kill all the minorities" bad, yes

  14. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:10 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What’s an example of a piece of art that inspired artists you love but that you personally don’t like?

    Ian replied:

    David Lynch's filmography

  15. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:10 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Would you say that your ideology has alienated you from the people around you?

    in response to How do you deal with family members that are interpersonally very kind & but hold bigoted views that they aren’t willing to change?

    Ian replied:

    it has made me more friends than it's cost me, and I haven't lost anyone I'd mourn

  16. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:09 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I just like English girls and think she’s cute

    in response to Is it gay if I like androgynous lesbian characters like Tracer from Overwatch

    Ian replied:

    are you a boy, girl, or otherwise?

  17. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 3:01 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is that the greatest trick of capitalism - making us all complicit?

    in response to How much can I make before I become part of the problem?

    Ian replied:

    the greatest trick of capitalism is making us think it's as old as money

  18. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:59 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you think you've already made your most popular video ever

    Ian replied:

    I don't make assumptions anymore. I used to think This Is Phil Fish was the biggest thing I would ever do. for YEARS nothing else I did came close to those numbers. but, eventually, my channel took off and now I have many videos way more popular. also videos that were kinda under the radar have suddenly gone big a couple years after the fact; We Don't Talk About Kenny is the second biggest video on my channel, and it used to be "the most popular of my unpopular videos."

    I'm just gonna keep doing my thing and we'll see what happens.

  19. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:56 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Why does Biden keep lying about the ceasefire? They have been insisting for months and months that the only obstacle for a deal is Hamas when LITERALLY Yesterday Netenyahu went on fox news and said openly that he's not interested in a deal. The Israeli public are conducting mass protests in order to pressure Netenyahu to try to reach a deal. Yet Biden Is ignoring even the will of the Israeli people. It's so backwards it's crazy he's not even pro Israel because Israelis don’t want this. He's Pro Netenyahu, a man who is desprate for Trump to be in power again.

    Ian replied:

    he's not a good person

  20. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:55 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How do you deal with family members that are interpersonally very kind & but hold bigoted views that they aren’t willing to change?

    Ian replied:

    I have largely stopped dealing with them

  21. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:54 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Modern day run-of-the-mil conservatives like Dennis Prager say they support color-blindness. Why would that be racist? Treat others not by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. Saying "every white person is an oppressor/every black person is oppressed" sounds A LOT more racist to me.

    in response to If you’re able to say "all conservatives are racist; it’s a racist ideology" then can we say "all Muslims are violent; it’s a violent religion"

    Ian replied:

    "Dennis Prager says he's not racist" is very, very funny

  22. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:53 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Those people say that the us currently arming Ukraine is imperialism, but Russia invading Ukraine is anti-imperialism somehow.

    in response to Being against imperialism isn’t bad at all on its own, but almost everyone who self-identifies as an "anti-imperialist" is a tankie.

    Ian replied:

    well that's a very bad argument

  23. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:52 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Is it gay if I like androgynous lesbian characters like Tracer from Overwatch

    Ian replied:

    god I hope so

  24. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:52 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What’s the coolest Mesoamerican god & why is it Xipe Totec Aka the “Flayed Lord”

    Ian replied:

    this is Quetzalcōātl erasure

  25. Published on Sep 9, 2024, 2:50 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (Dan Akroyd)

    in response to (District Attourney) Thank you for giving words to this idea here. I've wanted a way to describe rhetoric like this for years now.

    Ian replied:

    (Drive Angry)

  26. Published on Sep 8, 2024, 1:33 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (District Attourney) Thank you for giving words to this idea here. I've wanted a way to describe rhetoric like this for years now.

    in response to If you’re able to say "all conservatives are racist; it’s a racist ideology" then can we say "all Muslims are violent; it’s a violent religion"

  27. Published on Sep 8, 2024, 1:30 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    American conservatives did not invent systemic racism. It is absurd to suggest otherwise.

    in response to (DA) No people of *any* ideology are a monolith. No system of political belief is inherently any one thing. Whether conservative, liberal, leftist or anything in between. There are racists all along the political spectrum. Every other "ism" is just as guilty of perpetuating systemic racism as conservatism. But I'm sure you have some "gotcha" lined up to refute that.

    Ian replied:

    you are correct, which is why nobody said that

  28. Published on Sep 8, 2024, 12:40 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Phasma returning just felt…unnecessary for a movie as well planned as TLJ. It came out of nowhere with zero buildup. Like, how’d she survive the planet explosion in the previous film?

    Ian replied:

    I think she is seen escaping in TFA, but I could be wrong. I was assuming she'd be back.

    the scene works well enough for me because it's the moment Finn officially decides to be a rebel, and not simply work with the rebels to protect himself and his friends. Finn's arc in the last movie is about regaining his humanity, running from an oppressive regime, and finding human connection in Rey. TLJ reframes this, showing that, if Finn is primarily motivated by fear and loyalty to his chosen people over the wider community, then that's a kind of selfishness. his arc in this film is growing to care about more than himself and his personal connections, to extend that sense of humanity to people he doesn't know, to not just ESCAPE the First Order but actively OPPOSE them.

    Phasma functions as a personification of the First Order. he has escaped her, and then he captured and humiliated her, but he hasn't actually CONFRONTED her yet. so a one-on-one fight, where he full-throatedly accepts her label of "rebel scum," is making that arc very literal.

    it's actually a funny inverse to Poe's arc, in that Finn needs to go from a survivor to a fighter, and Poe needs to go from a fighter to a survivor. Finn chooses to fight the First Order, but his idea of what that looks like is the same as Poe's at the start of the movie: win at any cost. so he has to learn the lesson Poe is learning as well: that escaping to fight another day, saving as many lives as you can even if it hands you enemy a victory, is still a form of resistance. he kinda ends up full circle, once again escaping the First Order and protecting his people, but the definition of "his people" has been fundamentally redefined, and "escaping" is now about building a resistance instead of hiding.

    ...goddamn it's a great movie.

  29. Published on Sep 8, 2024, 12:22 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (DA) No people of *any* ideology are a monolith. No system of political belief is inherently any one thing. Whether conservative, liberal, leftist or anything in between. There are racists all along the political spectrum. Every other "ism" is just as guilty of perpetuating systemic racism as conservatism. But I'm sure you have some "gotcha" lined up to refute that.

    in response to If you’re able to say "all conservatives are racist; it’s a racist ideology" then can we say "all Muslims are violent; it’s a violent religion"

    Ian replied:

    "every belief is exactly the same" not it's not

  30. Published on Sep 8, 2024, 12:21 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    But what if fascism does work this time? Hitler and Mussolini weren't real fascists. Real fascism has never been tried before.

    in response to You didn't offer a rebuttal. Why does "never again" apply to the Holocaust but not to the man-made famines that happen in socialist countries?

    Ian replied:

    do you think there's a fascist out there who would argue this? do you think there's a single fascist that calls Hitler illegitimate? that doesn't hold up Nazi Germany as the ideal of the movement?

    oh, right, I'm talking about reality again. carry on.

  31. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 9:05 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Ian. I love the last jedi, yet the only part of it I don’t think was necessary was for Phasma to return. It felt unnecessary. Do you agree or disagree? If you disagree then help me understand bc it’s a damn good Star Wars film!

    Ian replied:

    what do you dislike about Phasma returning? I don't have strong feelings about Phasma.

  32. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 9:05 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Different anon. I have felt this way for years! I told someone once that if heaven is full of Pat Robertsons, it isn’t a place I’m interested in spending eternity in.

    in response to Are you afraid that atheists go to hell automatically if it actually exists?

  33. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 9:05 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Have yoy ever stopped anyone from doing that?

    in response to How you stop yourself from rolling up & crying?

    Ian replied:

    I don't tend to stifle people's emotions unless they're being unsafe. if someone is sobbing, I'm not gonna stop them, I'm going to sit with them.

  34. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 9:03 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How much can I make before I become part of the problem?

    Ian replied:

    oh, no, you're already part of the problem. that's life under capitalism: we are ALL part of the problem.

  35. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 9:01 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Being against imperialism isn’t bad at all on its own, but almost everyone who self-identifies as an "anti-imperialist" is a tankie.

    in response to I am an anti-anti-imperialist

    Ian replied:

    I find that very funny, because the whole reason we call them tankies is because they defend Stalin sending tanks into Prague to quash their revolution. what the fuck else would you call that if not imperialism?

  36. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 8:07 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    If you’re able to say "all conservatives are racist; it’s a racist ideology" then can we say "all Muslims are violent; it’s a violent religion"

    Ian replied:

    you argue from a lens of pure rhetoric where, if I make a type of argument, I must allow ALL arguments of that type into the field of play. as though the validity of an argument is in its type, and not whether it is factual. racist ideologies exist; you know this. I contend conservatism is one of them, and have argued for why. violent religions exist; Norse mythology is a fine example. you have not argued that Islam is a violent religion, merely alluded to such arguments having been made and demanding I accept them because, if I concede some ideologies might be inherently problematic, then anyone can say that about any belief.

    the fact that every major racist movement in the last century has been led by conservatives means nothing to you. the long history of Islam, in which it has been considerably less violent than Christianity, and in which the violent and oppressive strains of the Middle East are a break with tradition; that the majority of Muslims do not live in the Middle East, but in Africa; that the violence in the Middle East is far easier to understand by looking at the imperialist history of the region (which earned Afghanistan the nickname "The Graveyard of Empires") than at which religion is dominant; that many Muslims in the Middle East are fierce opponents of the militants whom they feel have coopted their religion; that all means nothing.

    that would be acknowledging REALITY, and, in REALITY, your argument is shit. but, in the realm of pure rhetoric, your argument is "valid" because it bears a loose resemblance to an argument I treated as valid, despite that argument being about a different group of people, a different ideology, being about BELIEFS (racism) rather than ACTIONS (violence), and being - you know - supported by evidence I have meticulously provided.

    you have no reality to reach for, so you come at me with this Philosophy Major bullshit. fuck off.

  37. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 7:55 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are you familiar with the Journey to the West story? And also the Monkey King (sun wukong)?

    Ian replied:

    vaguely

  38. Published on Sep 7, 2024, 7:54 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Thoughts on Lyndon LaRouche?

    Ian replied:

    cult leader, and I'm only slightly exaggerating

  39. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 7:18 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I am not sure it’s intentional noticed you depicted Samuel R Delany as looking like a white guy when he’s a black man

    Ian replied:

    I based the color of his doop on his actual skin tone. Delany is light-skinned; his status as a racially-ambiguous, sometimes white-passing Black man is a major theme in his memoir, and is a feature of several of his novel protagonists.

  40. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 7:14 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Could Hugh Jackman be that buff in his 50s without roids?

    Ian replied:

    I'm not saying he doesn't juice, but if you asked me "what's a plausible way to be ripped in your 50's without juicing?" I'd say "Hollywood paying trainers to keep me in shape for 30 years."

  41. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 7:10 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How you stop yourself from rolling up & crying?

    Ian replied:

    I work from home, I don't need to stop myself

  42. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 5:00 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Why’d you turn off comments on that dancing video of yours?

    Ian replied:

    once I started taking aim at GamerGate and the Alt-Right I knew I was gonna get a lot of f-slurs on that video and locked it in advance

  43. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 4:57 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    hey maybe ask Kurdish people if their life was better before or after the Iraq war

    in response to I am an anti-anti-imperialist

    Ian replied:

    ask the Kurds how it was that Iraq had power over them in the first place

  44. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 4:53 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are you afraid that atheists go to hell automatically if it actually exists?

    Ian replied:

    if God exists and is the kinda guy who damns people to eternal torment for not worshipping Him, then I imagine Heaven is full of the worst, most insufferable people. it's just two Hells at that point.

  45. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 3:12 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Never ask a woman, her age
    A man, his salary
    An "anti-imperialist", what Serbia was doing in Kosovo before NATO started bombing them

    in response to I am an anti-anti-imperialist

    Ian replied:

    an anti-imperialist would say what Serbia was doing in Kosovo was imperialism

  46. Published on Sep 6, 2024, 3:07 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Are libertarian conservatives actually what people are thinking of when they say conservatives want small government?

    Ian replied:

    all conservatives say they want small government. few mean it.

  47. Published on Sep 5, 2024, 4:07 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I am an anti-anti-imperialist

    Ian replied:

    no you're not

  48. Published on Sep 5, 2024, 4:04 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    If you were given five million dollars to open a small museum, what kind of museum would you create?

    Ian replied:

    oddities

  49. Published on Sep 5, 2024, 4:04 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I'm pansexual but like am I just basically saying "I'm straight but you know, chill about it" or what

    Ian replied:

    "straight but chill about it" doesn't sound very pan, pan usually means "I date everything"

  50. Published on Sep 4, 2024, 5:04 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    In regards to "I want my relationships to be respected because the are good and right for me, full stop.", what's to be done about those who simply Do Not Want you to get what is good and right for you? Who see "respectable" and "good and right for Ian Danskin" as opposed to each other for whatever reason?

    in response to Would people benefit from seeing polyamory and monogamy as akin to sexual orientations, even if they dom't operate the same way?

    Ian replied:

    if it's just their shitty opinion, I ignore them and hope the world moves past them in time. if they're in a position to restrict my rights, I fight.

  51. Published on Sep 4, 2024, 12:34 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    favorite x-man

    Ian replied:

    Dingle

  52. Published on Sep 4, 2024, 12:34 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Should I vote for Kamala Harris knowing full well she won't stop Israel?

    Ian replied:

    I can't solve that moral conundrum for you

  53. Published on Sep 4, 2024, 12:31 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you remember Oscar Grant?

    Ian replied:

    I never forgot Oscar Grant

  54. Published on Sep 3, 2024, 9:08 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Would people benefit from seeing polyamory and monogamy as akin to sexual orientations, even if they dom't operate the same way?

    Ian replied:

    yes and no.

    there are a lot of ways I think my relationship model would be treated with more respect if it were seen that way. I have extended family who don't take my life and relationships seriously, and if they applied the same lens they apply to queerness to it, they might feel more self-conscious about that, maybe make more of an effort. there are a lot of poly people who DO consider it an orientation, and feel it's a type of queerness, and I've had experiences that make me sympathetic to that argument. ("I dismissed your relationship til you had kids" is common to poly and queer people alike, for instance.)

    but, also... that's not how *I* experience polyamory. I don't see MY polyamory as an orientation, I see it as a choice. I think a lot more people could function polyamorously than we think. I think it is a valid choice, and should be respected even if it's NOT an innate characteristic that couldn't be changed. I don't see the part of my life where I was monogamous as having been "in the closet," I was just making a different choice that served different purposes. I'm happier now, but I wasn't denying an identity. similarly, for all we talk about "born this way," I think queerness would be valid even if it were a choice. if it came out that most people are far more sexually fluid than we think and most people COULD function as a different orientation if they chose to, I would want that choice respected. I'm not saying I think that's how people are, I'm saying there nothing wrong with queerness of any kind, and our ability to respect is shouldn't depend on it being innate.

    I'm not saying anyone who experiences polyamory as an orientation is WRONG, I just don't want to perform that experience to be treated as valid when it's not what I feel. I want my relationships to be respected because the are good and right for me, full stop.

  55. Published on Sep 3, 2024, 8:56 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Different anon. I agree about it not being a deterrent, but what about preventing them from doing it again?

    in response to What about the efficacy of imprisonment or execution to eliminate the possibility of repeat offenders?

    Ian replied:

    I'd rather take steps to prevent them from doing it in the first place, which mostly involves treating crime as a public health issue and addressing the root causes of crime.

    like, here's a thought experiment for you: let's say it's your job to work out the budgets for crime prevention AND punishment. and you look at the data and you see that every hundred dollars spent on prevention stops three crimes from happening, and every hundred spent on punishment stops one. how much money do you put into prevention, and how much do you put into punishment?

    I cannot justify putting a single dollar into punishment if all data says I will do more good putting that dollar into prevention. every dollar spent prosecuting, jailing, or executing criminals would be better spent on rehabilitation and social intervention. the numbers are a bit more complicated than "$100 prevents 3x as many crimes in prevention than punishment," but the overall trend holds: funding social workers and crisis counselors and addiction programs prevents more crime than retributive justice. and any money spent on the latter would be better spent on the former.

    if you are choosing punishment over prevention, it's not because it makes the world safer, it's because it makes you feel better. it's because you want criminals to suffer, and would rather live in a more dangerous world where you can at least get revenge when you're wronged than live in a better world where people who wrong you still get treated like human beings.

  56. Published on Sep 3, 2024, 1:05 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What about the efficacy of imprisonment or execution to eliminate the possibility of repeat offenders?

    in response to (DDA) what about the idea of punishment as deterrence?

    Ian replied:

    I think it would be a stretch to call punishment that happens after a crime is committed a "deterrent"

  57. Published on Sep 2, 2024, 11:40 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    OK, what have women told YOU that they like? I guess I could be projecting because I'M attracted to feminine women.

    in response to I mean it's just common sense. Like I get some people might like tomboys or femboys for whatever reason but in general straight women like masculinity in men and straight men like femininity in women. I think women like people like Justin Bieber and Timothy Chamalet not because they're conventionally masculine, but because they're youthful in appearance and give off a sense of innocence.

    Ian replied:

    I will do this, but can I point to the hilarity of being told "try talking to women" and following up by asking a man to explain women to you?

    will it blow your mind to hear that I have talked to a lot of women and each of them wants a different set of things? and, in fact, most of them like a variety of things? I have a friend who mostly dated fit softboys and women, but would get erratic cravings for muscledudes with face tattoos when she was ovulating. I have a friend who really likes tall skinny boys she can step on. I have a friend who dates teachers and musical theatre nerds with ADHD and bearded introverts who avoid eye contact. I've known at least a dozen women who MELT at a man who talks about his feelings, two dozen who swoon for a guy who knows how to cook, basically all of them for a guy who's good with kids. most LOVE the idea of a man who's fooled around with other men.

    like, go on Tumblr or AO3 and see which fictional men women are gaga for. BBC Sherlock and Draco Malfoy and bishi anime boys and every crying blond Evan Peters played on American Horror Story and the fucking Onceler. do you think Edward Cullen is the height of masculinity? do you know how FUCKING MOIST women are for Mr Darcy??? do you remember the Hot Ryu moment, when Street Fighter released an alternate costume for Ryu where he was shirtless and had a beard, and suddenly all these women were fantasizing not about getting RAILED by this musclebound hunk but about going to the farmer's market with a lumbersexual and then sipping cocoa by the fire?

    you cannot possibly think all women want the same thing if you have carried in conversations with like three of them.

  58. Published on Sep 2, 2024, 11:19 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (DDA) what about the idea of punishment as deterrence?

    in response to (DA) But...if they're war criminals, they've *already* committed war crimes. That's how it works. Are you saying they shouldn't be punished?

    Ian replied:

    look up any data ever on the efficacy of punishment as deterrence

  59. Published on Sep 2, 2024, 11:17 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    As a vegan, why do you think anti-veganism is a common sentiment among American conservatives?

    Ian replied:

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Do-gooder_derogation

  60. Published on Sep 2, 2024, 4:58 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    I mean it's just common sense. Like I get some people might like tomboys or femboys for whatever reason but in general straight women like masculinity in men and straight men like femininity in women. I think women like people like Justin Bieber and Timothy Chamalet not because they're conventionally masculine, but because they're youthful in appearance and give off a sense of innocence.

    in response to How do I be more masculine? I’m a straight guy and I feel I have some feminine mannerisms for some reason. Without realizing I habitually do that thing grabbing my ear (removing dandruff in back of it) and crossing my leg that Nick Fuentes does in that one photo. Women are generally attracted to masculinity like men are to femininity.

    Ian replied:

    so it's common sense and not a thing, like, ANY woman has ever actually said to you?

  61. Published on Sep 2, 2024, 4:27 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    How do I be more masculine? I’m a straight guy and I feel I have some feminine mannerisms for some reason. Without realizing I habitually do that thing grabbing my ear (removing dandruff in back of it) and crossing my leg that Nick Fuentes does in that one photo. Women are generally attracted to masculinity like men are to femininity.

    Ian replied:

    what man told you that?

  62. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 9:08 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Neither do *you^ have the right to speak for anyone but yourself. Yet you seem to refuse to accept the possibility that you're in the minority on the issue of punitive justice.

    in response to That’s an easy opinion to have when your family wasn’t murdered in a war crime, I’ve worked with Iraqi refugees and they definitely wanted retribution

    Ian replied:

    what? I know full well I'm in the minority and never claimed otherwise.

  63. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 4:37 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    What topics do you usually discuss (don’t have to go into details)?

    in response to Do you have family meetings?

    Ian replied:

    even the topics are more information than I'm gonna give out on Curious Cat

  64. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:47 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    That’s an easy opinion to have when your family wasn’t murdered in a war crime, I’ve worked with Iraqi refugees and they definitely wanted retribution

    in response to (DA) But...if they're war criminals, they've *already* committed war crimes. That's how it works. Are you saying they shouldn't be punished?

    Ian replied:

    I'm sure some did, but I don't think Iraqi refugees are a monolith and I don't think you speak for all of them. also you don't know my life, and I have been the victim of violence multiple times, and I have not found any satisfaction in retribution or even the idea of retribution.

  65. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:45 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you have family meetings?

    Ian replied:

    yeah

  66. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:45 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Why aren't you an anarchist yet?

    Ian replied:

    got questions I'd like to research the answers to, got a lot of shit going on, and the revolution ain't exactly imminent so I've got time

  67. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:43 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (diff anon) To be honest, I think this is the biggest obstacle that a socialist society has to becoming realized - A lot of people do not want to give up the "right" to inflict suffering on those they deem worthy of it. I recognize this is not absolutely universal, as you point out that punitive justice does nothing for you. But I think a majority of people want intrinsically want to see the wicked suffer.

    It's not even really about justice, as a lot of unjust suffering has come from it, but the idea that people just have to give up on the idea that what they consider evil people will not suffer for their sins....maybe I'm wrong, but it seems so ingrained into the norms of society, it feels like it'd be like trying to make people give up alcohol, and we know how prohibition went.

    in response to (DA) But...if they're war criminals, they've *already* committed war crimes. That's how it works. Are you saying they shouldn't be punished?

    Ian replied:

    I don't think it's intrinsic, I think it's learned, but I agree it's a huge obstacle. the main tactic I use is that the punitive model doesn't even HAPPEN. if you've ever interacted with the justice system, you know full well that most people who do awful things get away with it, most of the ones that get caught never go to trial, those who do take years before seeing a judge, and what punishment they see has more to do with defendant demographics/which judge they happen to get/what lawyers they can afford. we have this image in our heads of what the punitive model is supposed to do: a speedy trial with a fair judge and an impartial jury. and we know, for a FACT, that the entire criminal justice system would fall apart if it tried to deliver that. so we get overworked public defenders, apathetic cops, biased juries, loads of plea bargains, and slow-as-molasses proceedings.

    so, like... set aside whether the punitive model WORKS or is MORAL - it's NEVER ACTUALLY EXISTED. it is completely unworkable. if you want justice in the form of punishment, you'd better hope the offender is a poor Black man or they'll never face any kind of judgement.

  68. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:33 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Only the best!

    in response to Have you never read a Goosebumps book?

    Ian replied:

    Welcome to Dead House and The Scarecrow Walks at Midnight are the only ones I remember getting my pulse up, and it was more suspense than fear. they never got under my skin.

  69. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 3:30 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Do you remember Disney Infinity?

    Ian replied:

    I remember Errant Signal's three videos about Disney Infinity being really fascinating even though I never played the game

  70. Published on Sep 1, 2024, 2:52 AM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (DA) But...if they're war criminals, they've *already* committed war crimes. That's how it works. Are you saying they shouldn't be punished?

    in response to So what should happen to war criminals?

    Ian replied:

    I'm saying I don't care about punishment. punishment doesn't undo the crime or bring back the dead, and, if my loved ones were murdered in a war crime, knowing someone went to jail for it wouldn't help me through my grief. I want to know that the awful things won't keep happening. that's the only thing that sounds like justice to me.

  71. Published on Aug 31, 2024, 3:03 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    So what should happen to war criminals?

    in response to In an ideal world would all high level US politicians be in jail for war crimes?

    Ian replied:

    don't put them in charge of any wars

  72. Published on Aug 31, 2024, 3:02 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    Have you never read a Goosebumps book?

    in response to What is your preferred artistic medium to experience horror in? Movies, games, books, whatever

    Ian replied:

    I read Goosebumps religiously as a kid, but I'ma let you in on a secret:

    they're not that scary

  73. Published on Aug 30, 2024, 11:59 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    No, but a weapons embargo won't do anything to take away the weapons Israel *already has*. The only way the U.S. is doing that is by taking them from the cold, dead hands of Israeli soldiers by force, through the full scale invasion of Israel.

    in response to (DA) The last time an American president intervened in this conflict was with the Onslow Accords, which brought about the current nightmare scenario in the West Bank. Maybe Harris just knows her history.

    Ian replied:

    you can't be this fucking stupid, bud

  74. Published on Aug 30, 2024, 11:47 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    In an ideal world would all high level US politicians be in jail for war crimes?

    Ian replied:

    an ideal world would not have jails

  75. Published on Aug 30, 2024, 11:46 PM

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    Anonymous commented:

    (DA) The last time an American president intervened in this conflict was with the Onslow Accords, which brought about the current nightmare scenario in the West Bank. Maybe Harris just knows her history.

    in response to Why doesn’t Kamala campaign with a ceasefire agenda when it’s so obvious that’s what the majority of voters want and it would greatly boost her numbers?

    Ian replied:

    uh huh. did this Presidential intervention involve a weapons embargo?

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